Relationships are simply about figuring out a mutual language, developing trust, increasing intimacy, telling the truth and revealing yourself deeply. A recent survey reported that the average cost of a wedding in the United States is $25,200.00. In addition, countless hours are spent with dresses, flowers, cake selection, receptions details, etc. But how much time do the soon to be couple spend on discussing their core values and exploring areas of compatibility as well as areas of potential conflict? If you are planning a wedding please think about spending a couple of hours with Betty​ on how to make ​your marriage happy and fulfilling!

In the strongest marriages, husband and wife share a deep sense of meaning. They don’t just ‘get along’ – they also support each other’s hopes and aspirations and build a sense of purpose in their lives together. – John Gottman

We cultivate love when we allow our most vulnerable and powerful selves to be deeply seen and known, and when we honor that spiritual connection that grows from that offering with trust, respect, kindness, and affection. Love it snot something we give or get, it is something we nurture and grow. – Brene Brown

Being open to the concept of setting and receiving truth and boundaries with each other will assure that you will be on the same page with regard to both values and personal growth. – Dr. Henry Cloud

Marry the right person. This one decision will determine 90% of your happiness or misery. – H. Jackson Brown Jr.

Published by Aubrey Backscheider

Aubrey (Bock) Backscheider is a graduate of Purdue School of Technology with a degree in Information Systems and Organizational Management. She worked for several years as a support engineer at IBM where she met her husband, Paul. The two married in 2006 and expatriated for the first five years of Marriage to Germany, Spain, Australia, and Canada. When returning to the US, Aubrey founded Cinci360 IT consulting company to help small businesses overcome technical challenges. In addition to 3D Digital Twin services, Cinci360 has helped dozen of startups get a foothold in eCommerce and search optimization. Aubrey currently resides in Cincinnati Ohio with her two children and labrador, Birdie.

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